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Aisling Marron's avatar

"I think maybe my time with my kids when I’m parenting alone is actually me at my best." - Sometimes when my husband travels for work and it goes so well that I think: wait, is my husband holding me back?!? Then realise no, it's going well because I'm SO terrified of the shit hitting the fan that I overprepare things like lunches and laundry and cleaning. And also because I get takeout every single night.

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Lucy Huber's avatar

Yes!!! I can’t assume he’s going to pick up the slack, so I have to make sure I do it ALL. But I couldn’t operate like that all the time, I need him!!!!

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Madeline's avatar

"12:17 pm: I blackout, and suddenly it’s time to pick up my daughter, as she has been at preschool for her allotted 15 minutes a day."

I literally cackled!!! 🤣🤣🤣

You have so beautifully captured both the warmth and the Kafkaesque chaos of Trying To Get Things Done With Toddlers

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Nimmie's avatar

You have so accurately captured your morning routine with your two littles, and have provided a chance at the same time, to laugh and remember what life with small humans was like. Fabulous post, Lu.

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Elizabeth Heydary's avatar

Solidarity. My kids are almost 9 and 6 and still play the hit each other until someone cries game- their game always involves light sabers or stand in light sabers. There was a kid named Brownie in Where the Heart Is! Maybe this parent also named her child after a snack food.

I hope the rest of the solo parenting goes ok.

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Lucy Huber's avatar

Haha thank you! His name is Browning! This was written about a previous solo parenting week, so luckily my husband is currently home and we all made it through. 😂

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Alexandria Faulkenbury's avatar

Been there many a time. Really enjoyed this!

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Rebekah Peeples's avatar

My oldest just turned 20 this week, and while I rarely miss the stage that you're in right now, this portrait of a day -- even just part of it -- filled me with nostalgia. Thank you!

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Fortesa Latifi's avatar

loved this so much

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Lucy Huber's avatar

Thank you!!!!!

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Katie Hawkins-Gaar's avatar

This was wonderful ✨

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Kathryn Barbash, PsyD's avatar

Just perfect!

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Darcy Lee's avatar

This photo! is very good and all your words matched it. Thank you.

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Jane's avatar

:The children speak in what can only be described as capital letters. Loud, bold, sometimes grammatically incorrect." - Never truer words were spoken. 😂 How many times do I tell my son to stop shouting and he replies "I'M NOT SHOUTING!". 🤦‍♀️😂

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Taylor's avatar

"If I don’t have some sort of activity planned, the activity will be Yell at Each Other." This is so real 🤣

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