Let's Discuss: What Time Do Your Kids Go to Bed?

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As a mom of kids under 6, this graphic caught my eye on Instagram. My boys share a room, and though we try to get them to sleep by 8 pm, this usually doesn't happen. They're in bed between 7:30 and 8, but the actual falling asleep often doesn'thappen until 8:30. I've debated trying to push this earlier in the evening (I'd certainly relish the opportunity for a little more time to myself at night!), but my husband doesn't usually get home from work until 7 or 7:30, and they would risk not seeing him at all. Plus, as a decidedly not-morning person, the thought of them potentially waking up earlier than 6 or 6:30 fills me with a cold and sinister dread.

Once again, I'm reminded that best practices are just that—an ideal, created in a vacuum, that may or may not be accessible to the average family.

What do you think? Do your kids follow the bedtime guidelines outlined here? How have you made that happen—and if not, why not?

—Amy

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